I DON’T THINK ANY GUY SHOULD CROSS 30 BEFORE PLANNING ON GETTING MARRIED || PASTOR KINGSLEY OKONKWO.
I don’t think any guy should cross 30 before getting married. Getting
married at 32 is already late. Why are you not yet married?, There are abundant of women out there that are good for marriage, so why are not yet married.
When I met my wife for the first time, there was no emotional spark, I was not that excited, but I liked her as a person, there are so many qualities in her that I saw myself loving.
Watch out for people that claims to love you, but they don’t know why, I knew why I loved my wife, and those reasons are still here today, a guy that loves you and doesn’t know why, will one day change his mind by hating you and he won’t know why he hated you.
Did you notice that in the days of our fathers, they didn’t marry based on emotions, they married based on basic things like good character and background, they married based on clear values.
The thing with guys today, is that when they meet a lady, it will take approximately one year or more than to marry that lady, because they will have to date her,and that dating alone can take up to months and years. Dating shouldn’t take much time, all you need to do is to get to know the person very well, and go to God in prayer.
Don’t wait to be too old before getting married, especially men, am not urging you to rush into marriage, but always have it in mind that you don’t need to wait to be old before getting married, alot of guys wants to wait till 40, before they talk of getting married, you don’t need to be old before getting married.
Men, don’t delay to marry, there are so many girls around you, so find one, and settle down with her.
If you wait to have everything before you get married, you will end up marrying late.
The reason why alot of guys that are old enough to marry, are not yet married, is not because of money, but because they are waiting for their dream girl, that is not even existing, so reduce the standard of the kind of girl you want to marry, and marry a good girl.
Dear old brothers, have it in mind that you are running out of time, so get married.