Marriage is to enjoy, not endure – Ighalo’s estranged wife, Sonia spills why she left
Sonia Adesuwa, the estranged wife of Odion Jude Ighalo, has revealed what made her end her marriage with the former Super Eagles and Manchester United forward.
The mother of three made this known in a post on her Instagram page on Thursday and claimed that she left because she was tired of fighting and had to prioritise her children over her marriage.
Sonia also advised married women to become stronger self-advocates, while emphasizing that marriage is meant to be enjoyed, not endured.
Sonia wrote, “I also want to use this opportunity to encourage every woman out there. I read a few of your messages. Sis, let no one intimidate you, let no evil MIL control your home. Stand up for yourself and your children. Remember, Luke 10:19 says GOD has given us power to tread against scorpions and serpents.
“Be prayerful, trust me. If not for prayers and my boldness, I would have been forgotten by now. I chose to walk out of my marriage not because I was tired of fighting but because I chose my children over marriage. Remember, I got married at 19, and I invested so much in my marriage as a real African woman who would do anything to see her husband succeed.
“Flashback to when a famous Naija actress who married an Edo man came to the house in 2018. She called me aside and said, “Sonia, be very prayerful.
“Those who have the spirit to see beyond the physical would understand what she meant. I laughed, but within me, I said they cannot kill an ONLY CHILD who has an assignment on earth. I hear people saying she’s pained and broke bla bla bruh, go ask them, I was born with a SILVERSPOON.”
She also revealed that she would open a platform to encourage women having issues with their marriage.
“I promise to open a platform in the future to help and encourage women who are going through hell in their marital home. They need to speak up. Remember, marriage is to enjoy, not to endure. Thanks once again for your kind words and prayers. God bless you all.”
Credit: Instagram //desuwa30
No hou endure
Actually
It’s about being responsible
Dont agree with you
You endure many things in marriage
You overlook many things in marriage
Your statement is childish
You are not realistic
Statement is misleading
Hahaha 😂
It’s commitment
you dont go back
You will give account to God
God will hold you responsible
Marriage is only in this world
Your responsibility to see that your marrage works
No excise
It’s an institution
Not an excuse at all
It’s an estate that must be kept
Marriage is not for children
Wrong philosophy of marrige
Go and put your home in order
You are not as strong as you claim
You dont choose your children over marriage
Your home first
Your marriage first
Still need to learn
A failed marriage is a failed life
You just must work it out
Marriage is the best thing that can happen to a man or woman
dont paint a wrong picture
Let’s understand God’s intention
Dont put asunder what God joins together
God hates divorce
Two wrongs can never make a right
Couples should should endure and tolerate one another
Love covers all
Selfishness is the reason for divorce
Consider others involved
Divorce is bad decision
Repent and go back
It will work if you can work it
It’s in your hands
Teach people on how to endure in marriage
Stop saying marriage should be enjoyed and not endured
Marriage is good
Let’s do it right
Let’s solve it
It can be salvaged
Her choice
Marriage is not meant for beaten and beaten to death as used to happened. Life first, if she is not alife how will some say to her, she must keep her marriage
Marriage suppose to full of joy
Not always so
I wish it was so
Dont believe a lie
Sit up
Come off it
Get serious
First things first
It’s in your power
Product of your fault
What you put into it
You reap what you sow
Okay
Tolerance is a key to good marriage
Good talk
Fact 👌👌👌
Wonderful dear
God
okay na
I agree
Ha
Haha
Very true